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Mastering the Art of Teaching Stay: A Fresh Approach

Writer's picture: April RatherApril Rather

Training your dog to "stay" can be frustrating to teach, no worries, we are here to help. In this post, we will explore effective techniques to help you teach your dog the "stay" command, breaking it down into easy steps for everyone.


Side note: some trainers will tell you, you don't have to teach the word 'stay' and that it should be implied with your sits, downs, or stands. I agree, but I still find that people like to talk and want that extra security of having that extra word for more clarity for their dog.


Preparing for Training


Before starting, create a successful learning environment. Here are some important considerations:


  1. Choose the Right Space: Start in a quiet, uncluttered spot where your dog won’t be easily distracted. As your dog gets better at "stay," gradually introduce new environments.


  2. Gather Supplies: Have your dog's favorite treats, a leash, and a clicker handy if you're using one. Being prepared makes the training sessions smoother.


  3. Practice Patience: Every dog learns at their own pace. Some may pick it up quickly, while others need more time. Use positive reinforcement to encourage and motivate them.


Step-by-Step Guide to Teaching 'Stay'


Step 1: Master the 'Sit' , 'Down', or 'Stand' Command First


Choose which command you would like your dog to stay in first.


Step 2: Introducing the 'Stay' Command


When your dog is comfortable with "sit," it’s time to introduce "stay." Start with your dog in the sitting position.


  1. Say "stay" in a calm but firm voice.

  2. Take a small step back while keeping eye contact. If they stay put, return to your dog and reward them immediately with praise and treats.

  3. If they move, gently guide them back to their original position and reassure them. Evaluate if you moved too far away. You might need to treat in position, meaning you aren't moving at all just to build duration first.


Step 3: Increasing Duration and Distance


As your dog gets the hang of "stay," gradually increase both the duration OR your distance from them.


  1. Start by extending how long they hold the command. Aim for just a couple of seconds initially, then slowly increase the time to 15 seconds or more as they improve.

  2. As they master duration, take a few more steps back, ensuring they maintain eye contact.

  3. ALWAYS return to your dog while teaching stay. If you recall them to you, they might pair 'stay' with a recall to you instead of staying till my owner gets back. You can introduce recalls with your stay later.


Step 4: Distractions and Challenges


Once your dog understands "stay," it's time to introduce distractions.


  1. Set up distractions, like a toy or another person, several feet away. Pay attention to how your dog reacts.

  2. If they break the command, gently guide them back and encourage them to try again.

  3. Gradually introduce noises or movements. Practice in crowded places, like parks, to help them learn in different settings.

  4. I even throw a ball or a frisbee and have my dog stay till they are released. The release to a toy now becomes the reward he really craves!


Step 5: Generalizing the Command


It's essential to make sure your dog can "stay" in various situations.


  1. Begin practicing in your home and backyard. Ensure they can stay reliably in these controlled environments.

  2. Once they do well indoors, take them to public spaces that aren't super busy.

  3. Once they have less busy areas then you can start taking them to busier parking lots, parks or cities.

  4. No matter what level you are at, always do some reps in an a place your dog considers easy.


Step 6: Consistency and Daily Practice


Consistency is crucial in dog training. Aim for short, frequent training sessions several times a week. This repetition reinforces learning. Remember to celebrate successes with praise and treats.


Troubleshooting Common Issues


If challenges arise during training, keep these tips in mind:


  • Shorten Sessions: If your dog seems distracted, consider shortening training times but increase their frequency.

  • Use Clear Commands: Stick to specific verbal commands and gestures throughout the training process.


Final Thoughts


Teaching your dog to "stay" can be rewarding for both of you. With patience, consistency, and positive reinforcement, your dog can master this essential command.


Each dog has a unique learning style, so adjust your methods as needed. By incorporating these strategies into your training routine, you will foster a stronger bond with your canine companion and enjoy the benefits of a well-trained dog.


Close-up view of a dog sitting patiently with a leash attached
A dog sitting patiently during training session

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